Input vs. Instinct
I was scrolling through Facebook this past weekend when I saw an aspiring author post this question to a group:
“I gave my book draft to someone, and their feedback was that it should rhyme. Can anyone recommend resources on how to write a rhyming book?”
My immediate thought was, "Wait, you're changing your entire book because of what ONE person said?".
And then I realized that I've done this too. Not this exactly, but I've done some form of this. I think we all have.
Who has felt a little uncertain when first starting out at a new job, taking on a new opportunity, or writing a new book? (Hands up, people!) During those moments, we often reach out for feedback or advice. And when we receive a particularly “decisive” piece of feedback, it can be tempting to jump in and agree. After all, we sought out this person’s advice because they are an expert or we trust them, right?
Here is some of the feedback I have received in the past year:
Your character should be a girl instead of a boy.
You shouldn’t include an elephant in your zoo book. It’s too polarizing.
I prefer Cover Option #1 instead of Cover Option #2.
Your book needs to feel more fun. You should change the ending.
The rhyme on page 16 seems to be missing a syllable. It doesn’t flow as easily as the other pages.
Seeking input is incredibly important. You should never write your book in a vacuum. Good writers enlist professional editors, beta readers, and trusted friends to look over their work. And by doing this, you will receive a lot of feedback. Some of it will be very useful (m
y editor was right, there WAS a missing syllable on page 16)
, and some should be taken with a grain of salt (the elephants remained in the book).
Remember that your books should reflect YOUR vision. If something doesn’t feel right, it isn’t right. If you need to ask for another round of edits on your book cover, invest in the edits. If your book launch team isn’t following the marketing plan, revisit the plan or rework your team. You know your book better than anyone else so trust your instincts!